I’m really annoyed and I should be sleeping but instead I’m pissed. The other day @imparkingathome said there was a thread about her on GOMI. I didn’t know what GOMI was, she explained, I went there. I got lost and I saw a thread about MFA Mama. Because I understand what it is like to be close friends with somebody and then have the person turn out to be NOT COOL I left a comment on the thread. I understand the point of GOMI is to anonymously talk about people, but I do not give a shit. If I am on the internet I am going to use my nickname, Sam. I’m going to use my URL. I’m not going to change it, delete blogs, go private on Twitter, etc. Here I am! Still here!
After leaving the original comment (MFA Mama has screen shots of both up on her blog in case you’re curious) I thought about it and decided to omit the part about the post on Cecily. I hadn’t talked to Stalky about it and didn’t want to speak for her. Then I went back to the thread and noticed there were changes. MFA Mama had joined the conversation using another name. I went to her blog and realized I was playing a starring role in her manufactured drama.
Stalky and I think she made up the thread for page views and dramas. Whatever, I don’t care about any of that. What I do care about is her linking to a post of mine to assure you she is an upstanding citizen. I’m not really fond of that idea, so here’s an excerpt of an email sent to me while I was pregnant with Egg:
This further devolution of my own life is making it even harder to argue with Satan that even though the universe trends toward entropy, it can do that well enough without MY help. Satan doesn’t think I should suffer alone. Satan has photographic evidence of identifying marks/piercings/tattoos, and incriminating g-chat logs, and he wants to print it alllll out and get it off his chest–Satan is arguing that it’s only fair that EVERYONE know the WHOLE STORY. Eliza, says Satan, don’t you believe in HONESTY? Sure, the other party could try to lash out at you via the Internet, but you have no credit to ruin, no identity to steal, no trust in your marriage to lose, YOUR husband has already READ all of that stuff and looked at it because he hacked your laptop, and you’re going to have to shut your blog down anyway so who CARES if The Other Party outs you by posting your real name on their blog? You could turn right around and do the same to them, and they have a career to worry about! You don’t! You have NOTHING TO LOSE, YOU’RE FREE TO DO ANYTHING, ANYTHING AT ALL!
In case you’re confused, this is MFA Mama threatening to ruin my life because she has nothing left to lose. In this and many other emails she threatened to mail “evidence” to my in-laws, ruin my marriage, my career, and even contact all of my baby daddies in order to have my children removed from my custody. She even includes my First Son and I’m not sure how I can lose custody of a child I put up for adoption at birth. We were friends, and when she turned out to not be the person I thought she was, she threatened me. WHILE I WAS PREGNANT.
I found a group of ladies who went through a similar drama. So when I saw the thread I was hoping to HELP anyone finding themselves in a similar predicament. To let them know they aren’t the first or the last going through this mess. As MFA Mama enjoys threatening to go to the police with evidence of …something…I am going on record here:
I was good friends with MFA Mama. She turned out to be NOT COOL and NOT A GOOD FRIEND TO ME. If she can prove in a court of law that she IS COOL and WAS A GOOD FRIEND even when I had to shut down my credit card to prevent her from using it beyond what I agreed to then I shall apologize and remove this post.